Well see, now I love you a little for saying all that :)

And I like that you mention ‘besserwisser’ (and I really like that word and tell myself I must remember it!), and I notice that thought A LOT when I work with clients. And my thought is always “do I want to share this imagining/thought to make connection, or do I want to share it to prove that I have some special knowledge or insight”, which is something Carl Rogers said once and that I always remember.

I imagine we have a lot in common :)